Hello, I have fibromyalgia which causes my urge incontinence. I find it hard to date because of the health problems but it mainly the having to wear pads that makes it more difficult. I mean you dont want to scare them of by telling them you need to wear a nappy but then you do need to tell them before you become intimate with them
Thanks for all the replies, Iv been in lots of relationships and yes they accept that i have to wear but its still something that gets in the way. I think its harder when only being young people would never expect you to be incontinent, and to only find it weird and dirty that you have to wear a pad. so I think there isnt any way around it being a very hard thing to tell someone you have just started dating.