I have suffered from soiling myself for as long as I can remember. It is embarrassing when it happens. Everyone at school is sympathetic but I feel as if I am still a baby in an important area. The school nurse will dry my tears, clean up my accident and change my pants. Teachers sit me in a strategic place in the class but sometimes I don’t make it to the loos in time. I really am missing out on life. Obviously I don’t have a girlfriend.
Have you visited a Doctor about your faecal incontinence? It is useful to find a cause, as there may be a treatment option that is suitable for you. To prevent having to go to the school nurse, you could try changing your product more often throughout the day. Have you got permission from teachers to exit the classroom when needed?