I’m a 41 year old female and with a 1 year old little girl. Since having my first child I’ve suffered with bladder leakages, I thought over time it would improve but 1 year on and it seems to be getting worse. I’m too embarrassed to talk to anyone about it even my partner and its making me paranoid every day. Is this normal? Can I do anything to help with this? The pads I’m wearing don’t seem to be helping.