I have recently had a few public wetting accidents espescially while at work and have really struggled to hide them making me unable to continue my shift. I have decided I need to start wearing either a pull up or nappy during the day so i can control my wetting. I need recommendations for the most descreet products that will not show through my clothes at all as I would prefer no one I work with find out. Id like opinions before i commit to buying.
I have never found pull ups to be much use as I will leak a full bladder in one go. I wear two different Tena maxi products, active slip and flex, and a good tip I got early on was to go up a waist size in trousers giving more room in the seat and help hide any nappy outline.
Most people are not looking at you below the waist anyway so in the over three years I’ve had the problem I’m not aware of anyone who guessed what I was wearing underneath. Yes, using the active slip you can in a quiet room hear a slight crinkle from the plastic back but once there is more ambient room noise be assured you are aware of it more than anyone else.
My advice would be to find a product you are comfortable wearing and gives you the needed protection and don’t worry too much bout anyone noticing.