I am a female with urge incontinence (bladder only). I wont make it to the bathroom if I have less than 2 or so minutes to do so. When I first started wearing pads/nappies, I only wore them in case of emergencies/accidents and tried to make it to the bathroom and never ever did “number 2” in them.
But over the years I have become more confident and comfortable with wearing nappies. I often wear in the house, despite there being a toilet. Im very embarrassed about how lazy I have become.
I was in walking in the countryside last week and there were no toilets in the area. My stomach started cramping and I knew I needed a poo. A couple of years ago I would have struggled home with a bad tummy ache. But I just did the (massive) poo in my nappy and got on with my walk. I changed when I got home but it felt much better that way. This isn’t the first time I have had a poo in my nappy, it’s sometimes just simpler and more comfy.
I rarely go to a loo if I need a wee these days. Im usually busy and will be bursting by the time I make it (if I do even make it on time). And if I don’t make it on time I have just wasted my 5 minutes rushing to a loo when I could have relaxed and kept on doing what I was doing. I would rather keep on relaxing/watching a movie/looking in shops and wee in my nappy than rush about and get out of breath. It’s there, so why not?
Is anyone else in the same boat or am I gross and unusual? Am I weird?
I’ve been wearing nappy’s for a year or so now like you I started wearing them for emergency’s and accidents when I could get to the loo on time.
I must confess that I have stopped rushing to the loo to and just go in my nappy as it’s a hassle run to try and find a loo in time. I’m definitely find I’m more relaxed adout using my nappy as time goes on I’m little embarrassed to admit this so it’s good to here you do the same