Hello, I have fibromyalgia which causes my urge incontinence. I find it hard to date because of the health problems but it mainly the having to wear pads that makes it more difficult. I mean you dont want to scare them of by telling them you need to wear a nappy but then you do need to tell them before you become intimate with them
love the name macclad they were a brilliant band. all you can do is be honest my last female friend was a nurse, and I told her from the star, she said she was cool with it. it was only on our first night together she couldn’t deal with it. so we went our separate ways.
my point is you won’t know until you try to get yourself out there and date. good luck