Sorry to hear you are experiencing this. You are definitely not alone in having incontinence, as a lot of young people have similar issues but keep it to themselves. Have you found out the cause of your incontinence? The best thing to do is visit a Doctor to rule out any treatable causes.
Do you wear a protective product? Wearing a pad or protective pant can help you feel more comfortable, and protect against leaks. If you let me know how heavy your incontinence is, I can help recommend an ideal product for you.