As a 22 year old woman I sympathise as I suffered the same experience at school. Never underestimate how discouraging it is to be different from your friends. They were understanding and sympathetic but incontinence dominated everything I did. Boyfriends were very infrequent and one or two dates ended prematurely. University is easier and my diet has changed for the better. A good brand of pants has helped enormously. Accidents still happen but my frame of mind is easier.