I am 32 years old and have autism, I wee and poo myself and need help finding a good nappy
I would recommend the TENA Slip Maxi. You can purchase these on Allanda.
These pads are designed for heavy urinary and bowel incontinence, and can be worn in replacement of normal underwear. Would you be willing to try these?
Let me know if you need any more tips on managing incontinence.