I like a lot of men am not very good at talking about health issues. It actually took my wife to make me accept I had incontinence!
I now wear pants and waterproof over pants and have done for the past year or so and if she is not bothered than neither am I! One thing I noticed that women’s products are advertised on main stream media, but there is nothing for men! That surely only adds to the problem of men being open about that issue!