Bought some Tena premium level 4 Which I found big and bulky at first, and paranoid that people would see as I have to wear a suit for work. 6 major leaks, 2 of which led to a full loss of control, but still dry at the end of the day. First time in a long time that I’ve felt comfortable with my incontinence. I know they’re not popluar with some people, but I feel more comfortable going to work tomorrow. Dealing with the nappy rash is going to be the next hurdle!

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