Hi I’m nearly 60 and I’ve lived with incontinence for 20 odd years.
I wear disposable all in ones and plastic pants ( a nappy )
My question is am I wrong to call it a nappy what do you call them.
Yes, whatever you prefer. Getting used to the word “nappy” to describe your adult incontinence underwear can help get over the stigma, but if you find euphemisms easier then fair enough.